Don’t say these words when dating

Many people don’t know what to say when  dating with others, especially for a HIV Single. Valentine’s day is coming, if you want to have a sweet date,you should not talk these words when dating which can leave a bad impression to your partner.

  • Why do not you speak?

When you finish all your words, if you directly ask him or her why don’t you speak? It’s offensive. You should ask your partner what do you think or change the topic of conversation .

  • Are you unhappy with me?

If your partner is unhappy or impatient, then you ask him or her are you unhappy with me? It’s impolite.You should ask your partner what’s wrong with you?  Not only can express  your care, and can let your partner pour out his or hers heart with you  .

How to adjust the mentality for people with AIDS ?

When people know himself or herself have HIV, them are very sad and despairing,even losing the confidence for life. But it’s wrong attitude to face the disease. Life can be defeated by disaster ,it also can sublimate in the disaster. Faced with HIV, how do we adjust  mentality ?

  •  Face reality. We should race against time,receive timely treatment.The earlier treatment begins, the better the prognosis.
  • Trust yourself and society. Otherwise, we will will isolate ourselves, lost the sense of belonging and the basic sense of security.
  • Positive action. Only action can ultimately change a person.

You may be upset and think your sexual life is over. However, once you settle down and learn the facts, you’ll realize that having HIV is not the end of the world, and it’s not the end of your social life.You have to first accept that you have this disease, love yourself and others will love you.You can find someone also with HIV to talk to and get support from them.

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